The Bathroom Sex Sex Survey

Okay, you asked for it!

What is your gender, at least at the moment?

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like).

More than once, several times, every day?

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman?

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you?

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?" Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?"

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?

Are you gay? (Just kidding).

We'll make this easy. I'll go first, with my answers in the first comment.

You don't have to use your real name in the comment form.

Just post a fake name and a fake email (like anon@anonymous.com) if you want to keep your privacy.

Of course, you're welcome to take complete and honest credit, as well!

I await your complete and candid disclosure!

Comments

[susie Bright]

I'm female.
I think I've kissed and made out a little in public bathrooms, but nothing below the waist. I might have idly begun to masturbate, if I was alone. I would be inhibited by other people in the bathroom in a public place where "everyone" gathers. My fear of being caught or shamed would kill my erotic curiousity to go very far beyond flirting/kisssing.

My big "bathroom" sex experiences have been in lesbian bars and private parties, where I don't worry about who else is in the bathroom because clearly we're all into the same uninhibited atmosphere. That was really fun. Especially with people I barely knew, or had just met one minute ago at the bar. There was a certain vibe in San Francisco lesbian bars in the 80s that just made this like falling off a log. Actually, one of the best photo shoots we ever did for On Our Backs was at the San Marcos bar bathroom in the Castro, so I even have a whole aesthetic trip about "what angles" look best.

Private bathrooms, in someone else's home: yes. Mostly with men. This really didn't feel that daring. It was more like, "Hey let's do it in the shower." I wasn't worried about being busted, there was no exhibitionism involved.

My bathroom: Sure. Again, it's the lure of a nice shower. I like water attractions. I wish I could have a private party at Raging Waters.

I've been propositioned near public bathrooms by strangers, guys, and it gave me the creeps. When I was much younger, in my teens or early 20s... Now, I probably wouldn't be threatened, and would think it was a hoot, an oddball compliment. But it would never happen now! I don't think older self assured women get hit on in bathrooms, as a rule. THe guys leeching on the young babes are partly getting off on your fear and vulnerability.

During the lesbian bar heyday period I described above, I only once saw a woman who wanted to be part of the fun, and then later freaked out.

Everyone tried to calm her down, and tell her it was cool, she could just relax, leave, whatever... but I think she had too much too drink, and needed to packed home in a taxi. It was interesting how she got "taken care of" in a maternal sort of way when she flipped out.

I have never seen anyone famous doing anything... I'm like Mr. Magoo. I never pay attention, and my eyesight's terrible.

[fake name]

Bi female, had sex with a male in an airplane bathroom once for the mile-high club, can't say it was exactly great. Haven't run across anyone else doing it as far as I know. Wish the Republican pols would suddenly all come to their senses and kick out Bush and stop being such a bunch of closet cases trying to make life miserable for everyone else.

[Nobody U. Know]

Female.

Yes. I've given and/or received manual and oral gratification in a dusty small-town gas-station bathroom in the wilds of Nevada, the restroom compartment on a long-distance Amtrak run, and, way back when, the
exceedingly public restroom of the women's dorm at the college I attended. I've also masturbated to orgasm in the the handicapped stall of the women's room where I work, on more than one occasion.

Men and women. (In the case of college, several women. Our dorm was just rife with repressed Sapphists.)

In all cases, people I knew.

Private bathrooms: Yes, at my mother's house (long after I left home), and once while spending the weekend with married friends. She and I got it on in the bathroom while he was watching TV.

My own bathroom: Well, *duh*. I do not, however, recommend attempting partnered sex in a clawfoot tub. Or in most tubs, for that matter. Talk about a tragic household accident waiting to happen.)

I have fantasies about sex in all kinds of public/quasi-public locations, sometimes including bathrooms. I've got an exhibitionist streak a mile long.

I've walked into a bathroom to the sounds of Something Going On in another stall more than once. Usually I just quietly back out, but if I really have to go, I do my business and leave.

I share your experience with propositions, right down to the relief that it doesn't seem to happen to self-confident women of a certain age.

Fortunately, it appears high-level Republicans just hang out in the men's restrooms, so I've never had that, uh, honor.

[bifemmefatale]

What is your gender, at least at the moment?
F

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like).
No, but I did have sex in a country-club locker room.

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman?
Man.

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you?\
Knew him well--my bf at the time.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?
Not that I remember.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?
Yes, in the shower, like yourself.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?
Not really. The idea doesn't do it for me.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?"
No.

Have you been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, you thank you?"
Have not been propositioned in a bathroom.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?
:) No. Don't I wish! (I would sooo whip out the camera-phone.)

Are you gay? (Just kidding).
Queer, thanks. :)

[No one you know either]

Female, straight, only in my or my partner's homes. The idea of public bathrooms turns me off entirely, although I can imagine being turned on enough to stop caring.

[Ben]

What is your gender, at least at the moment? Male

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like). yes

More than once, several times, every day? Nope, just once

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman? Woman

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you? I knew them

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house? Yes

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom? Yes

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon? Not really

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?" Have you been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, you thank you?" Nope.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex? I wish!

Are you gay? (Just kidding).

No anonymous name needed. This is a heluvalot more interesting than any myspace poll i've ever seen.

[Greta Christina]

Female.

When I was 15, a guy went down on me in a bathroom in a pub in England. He then wanted to fuck me, but I was a virgin (by my definition of "sex" and "virgin" at the time, anyway), and I wasn't ready to lose it yet.

He was pretty much a stranger; a friend of my brother's (my family was visiting my brother who was living in England), but I'd just met him that afternoon.

That's the only bathroom sex I can remember right now, either public, private, or my own house. (Unless you count unsuccessful attempts at shower sex.) I don't actually like the idea of sex in bathrooms -- I like to get horizontal when I do it, it's hard for me to relax and come otherwise, and I don't particularly relish the idea of getting horizontal on a bathroom floor.

Fantasies? There have been times when I've either been out at a bar/ restaurant/ party/ etc. with someone special who I was hot for, or saw a stranger who I got hot for, and I'd have passing fantasies about doing it in the bathroom. But it's hard for me to have sustained fantasies about things I wouldn't actually want to do in real life, and see above re: not really liking sex in bathrooms.

I don't recall ever running into someone in the act; but I have seen couples exit bathrooms together.

No high level Republican pols. Not that I recognized, anyway.

And no, I'm not gay. I'm bisexual.

[Doug Henwood]

Male. Never had sex in a public bathroom, nor have I seen anyone else humping away either. Have had it once or twice in a nonpublic bathroom other than my own and quite a few times in my own. But living in NYC, the bathrooms are small so it's kinda hard to get too expressive, unless constriction is part of the point, which it sometimes is. Can't say I ever get excited about bathroom scenes, though. Bathrooms are so, I dunno, functional that they don't really stoke my libido.

[browse]

I'm male
I've done the usual activities in bathrooms. Oral, digital, and full on copulation. Yeah, I'm shameless.
These activities have been with women.
And yeah, women I knew before walking into a bathroom with them.
Oh, we're counting sex in the shower? Then hell yeah, I've had sex in other people's bathrooms!
My own bathroom? Oh mais, oui. Yes indeedy.
Nope, never had a fantasy I didn't try to explore.
I've seen/heard other people having sex in a bathroom. Nope, never been propositioned by a stranger in a bathroom. Clearly, I need to get out more.
Never ran into a pol having sex in a bathroom (that I know of).

Am I gay? It depends. What do you have in mind? ;-)

[Guess who]

Ooooh , this is so tempting! Do I have to follow the question format or can I just free-associate? I want to talk about....my friendly faucet! And I didn't give it that name, one of my girlfiriends did. The tub is a claw foot, perched on the side of a canyon, pacific ocean shimmering far below. I don't know what it is about the garden grip sprayer attached to the hot water hose running from the house, but it's perfect.

Curled up among the bubbles in the early morning sunshine, smiling at my sunwarmed self, spraying ever so gently, adding pressure, circling my hips, arching my back, exploding underwater. What was it Susie says? we're all spouting mermaids? Ah, it's the country life for me.

That's about as far from "public" bathroom sex as it gets, BUT there was one time in a train bathroom, with a gypsy soldier in Spain. That was great fun, but kinda tight quarters.

Thanks for zapping my erotic reveries to another level!

[featherynscale]

What is your gender, at least at the moment? Indifferent.

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like).
Yes. As it happens, I think any sort of sex that I care to have that can be had without a lot of props, I have had in a public bathroom. I used to occasionally sneak into the men's room at my boyfriend's workplace to catch a quickie with him while he was on break.

More than once, several times, every day?
Probably ten or fifteen times. Unless you count in the showers at the college dorms, in which case the number is significantly higher. It's been a while, though.

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman?
Both, though never at the same time.

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you?
I think I've only had sex in bathrooms with people I was dating at the time.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?
Quite a bit.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?
Of course. It's my bathroom.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?
No. I'm not really big on the bathroom -- I don't get anything extra out of it, it's just sometimes a convenient place.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?"
Yes, particularly at bars. I say 'excuse me' if applicable, and try to be about my business quickly and quietly.

Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?"
I've never been propositioned by anybody I didn't know in a bathroom. (I don't think, anyway. I didn't notice it at the time if I have been.)

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?
Nope. I rarely use the men's room, so I miss out on that sort of thing, I guess. Lucky me. :)

[Tobyman]

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom?
I had sex with a girlfriend at the Black and White Ball in San Francisco City Hall, in a lovely restroom upstairs. It ws ornate there, and no one was around, despite the huge mob floating around. It was stunning - we both smelled of sex for hours afterwards. there's something really lovely about keeping one's bow tie and white shirt on while fucking!

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman?
Always with a woman, being one of those pesky heterosexual types!

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you?
During the coke-induced days of the Eighties, almost anything went, and yes, I fucked a girl in a bathroom - the infamous Up & Down Club on Folsom, one night, late... How could I not? after she started grinding against me as I stood at the bar, with James Brown blaring, it was easy to simply say " What you need is a good fucking, and now!" She simply smiled, took my hand and we slipped into the toilet stall for a wild quickie.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?
Yes... a girl I ws dating, early in the relationship, took me to a party, and as soon as we walked in, said she needed to change, Would I come with her? Sure, I replied. The next thing I know, she is bending over and grabbing her ankles. Once again, that smell of sex after such an erotic exchange is rich and pungent, and noticeable!

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?
Damn! Who hasn't???

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?
Once again, WHO hasn't?

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?" Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?"
Yes, in my career as a restaurateur in San francisco, I often found people fucking in the bathrooms, or was forced to ask them to go elsewhere. One time, I found a couple fucking on the desk in my office. At least they moved the papers aside and didn't leave too much of a mess.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?
I thought high-level republican pols were priests in disguise.... and we know they don't take their little boys out in public, unless they're disguised as their nephew or a very short fellow Republican

Are you gay? (Just kidding).
No

[melvin moten jr]

I've never had sex in a public bathroom...But only because it's never been offered.

[LustyLioness]

What is your gender, at least at the moment?
female

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like).
I don't think I have, actually. It's kinda hard to say. In my former life as a fag hag I went to LOTS of gay bars where the bathrooms are very unisex. I've seen lots of other people having sex, but I don't think I've ever participated. Although, my mind keeps questioning this answer and with all the drugs and booze, I may have. So I guess I'll have to say, maybe?

More than once, several times, every day?
Rarely, apparently, if ever.

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman?
Probably with a man, most of the sex I've had has been with men.

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you?
I probably knew him, but again, there were a lot of consciousness altering substances in the 80s.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?
Yes, at a boyfriend's house.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?
I actually lost my virginity in a bathroom. In the house where I lived. On the carpeted floor. I was 14.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?
No, I got those out of the way early on.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?"
Well, at gay bars, as stated above.

Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?"
I am sure that I have, and no, it wasn't difficult to say no. Had it have been, I wouldn't have said no.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?
Oh sweet jeebus in a hot pink dress, don't I wish!

Are you gay? (Just kidding).
Not the last time I checked. However, I've been thinking about my best friend a lot lately. Yes, she knows and she's bi.

Overall, I think bathroom sex has become a turnoff for me the last couple of years-- hotel rooms not withstanding. Last year my (adult) son and his girlfriend were having sex in our bathroom. The girlfriend had removed my non-skid shower mat from the tub, (I have no idea why, other than her perfect little tootsies were too good to stand on my dingy shower mat,) and they proceeded to live out one of her bathroom fantasies. Well, the dumb bunny slipped, of course she did, and fell against the long, back wall of MY FUCKING CUSTOM TILE THAT I DESIGNED MYSELF and broke the fucking wall! Can you say $1000 worth of damage? And now the little bitch can't understand why I won't let them shower together anymore!

Oh, to be that young and stupid again. Scratch that. I never was that stupid, and I don't want to be, either! Unless I get Alzheimer's and then I won't care.

[Terrance]

What is your gender, at least at the moment?

Male

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like).

Nope

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?

Nope

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?

Nope

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?

Well, there was that time I bumped into John Roberts coming out of the bathroom at Starbucks, but I'm pretty sure he wasn't having sex in there. Unless he was jerking off. He was in there a long time.

Are you gay? (Just kidding).

Actually, yes. And after answering these questions I've also decided I'm pretty boring.

[Turtle]

Male, never in a public restroom, but once in a portable john on Hennepin Avenue, only once, only with a male who was a stranger to me. Of course, if you count masturbation, my college days would send all this COMPLETELY out the window - whew! I don't recall ever using someone else's bathroom for sex of any sort, unless you count that portable john thing. At my own home, however, it has been open season. I suppose it would be untrue to say I've never had a bathroom fantasy, but I don't recall them, so they must have been pretty boring. I have encountered others having sex in the restroom - a cop and a student in the library at the University of Tennessee, Knoxville, where the main floor men's room was well known for being a cruisy place. The security guard, when he found out about it, rushed in to join the action, btw. I had one guy who propositioned me once by waving his equipment at me, and though intrigued, I ran away. There have been a couple other times where men have stroked themselves suggestively, hoping I'd bite (pun.) Didn't work. It has not been that difficult to pass on their offers, because I'm not a big risk taker to start with - sometimes I wonder if that's the best policy, but in fact, don't really regret my basic conservatism, and don't have any diseases either, so I guess it's ok. Never have run into a known republican in a bathroom stall, and yes, I am gay.

[Anthony]

What is your gender, at least at the moment?
genderqueer with a male biological presentation

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like).
yep, mostly handjobs at the urnials, with the odd blowjob

More than once, several times, every day?
at the height maybe once a week.

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman?
man

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you?
you stop being a stranger when someones cock is in yr mouth

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?
yep

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?
yep

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?
i pretty much have acted on them all

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?" Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?"
yes, when propositioned, i always say yes, it strikes me as polite.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?
no

Are you gay? (Just kidding).
occasionaly

[sfmike]

Alright, I guess it's time you heard from somebody who had their first sex with an adult as a 13-year-old boy with an adult male at a Union 76 gas station bathroom in Southern California. And I was the ridiculously precocious one doing the pursuing, just to keep things in perspective.

What is your gender, at least at the moment? Male

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like). I've had every kind of sex imaginable in public bathrooms over the years, from mutual masturbation to full-out naked kissing and penetration.

More than once, several times, every day? It's never been my "daily" routine. Part of the fun is that it's been genuinely spontaneous.

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman? Men.

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you? Strangers.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house? Of course.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom? Of course.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon? No.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?" Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?" Yes, yes, and no.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex? Probably. Closet cases are't my favorite by a long shot, but they definitely have their own crazed sex energy with their own allure.

[Michael House]

I'm male, straight, and have had vaginal sex twice in restrooms on high-speed express trains in Japan with my girlfriend at the time (nearly 15 years ago as of this writing). Any faster and you'd have to be flying. 8~} The point was to fuck on the trains; the restroom was a target of opportunity. Aside from that, some petting and masturbation in private bathrooms, my own and others'. That's all that I can recollect as of this writing.

[atlasdtaggart]

What is your gender, at least at the moment? Female!

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like). Nope. Bring it on! Actually, I tell a lie. I have masturbated quite a lot. Covent Garden, YHA's, work...

More than once, several times, every day? A good few times.

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman? Myself

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you? I have known myself for quite a while.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house? Nope. Bring it on!

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom? Nope. Ditto.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon? I think my above answers should sort that one out.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?" Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?" No to all.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex? Hell no. Seen a very high level Republican family member in the bathroom though, open door, the lot.

[polly amorous]

What is your gender, at least at the moment? woman

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like). yes. use your imagination...

More than once, several times, every day? yes, more than once.

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman? sometimes men sometimes women sometimes both

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you? one stranger, others known

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house? yes.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom? yes

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon? no

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?" yes.
Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? no
Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?"

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex? no

Are you gay? (Just kidding).

[Jeff]

What is your gender?
Male

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do?
Yes. In the restrooms of a couple bars, in the 80s. The risk was a titilation. Fucking in stalls. Once in the locker room of a gym. Fucked a girl who worked there close to closing time. Someone still could have walked in on us. We both liked that. Did it on the counter in front of the mirrors. Did it once on a plane at altitude with a girlfriend. That was fun, but very confining. A flight attendent gave us nasty looks afterward.

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman?
Women.

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you?
Mostly knew them. A couple times knew them very briefly, in the bars/clubs. There was a place I used to go in Seattle that was known for sex in the restrooms, both men and womens.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?
Yes. During parties. One New Years, about 1987, I was at a bar in Lincoln, NE, alone, had no place to go. Linked up with a group of college kids and went to a party. Fucked a girl on the floor of the bathroom, in the thick, pink, shag carpet, and on the toilet, and on the sink. An hour later I did the same with a second girl. Made plans to go home with both of them. But went home with a third girl.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?
Of course. All the damn time. There is something about water and positive ions of running water. And the convenience, of being there in the bathroom for easy cleanup afterward.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?
Of course. Mostly with women never had.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?"
Yes, in Europe and the US, in bars, and homes. I just act dumn and go about my biz.

Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?"
Not that I can recall.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?
No.

Are you gay?
No.

[Greg]

Had sex with men and women in public and private bathrooms, including my own. And I have walked in on sex in bathrooms, but that was as a bartender and you tend to see that a lot.

What interests me is that as a young male growing up in an urban area, (Portland, OR) you tend to know which bathrooms are the 'sex' ones, long before you are sexually active. I think all males are exposed to men having sex from a very young age. I tend to think that if they say they haven't, then they are just repressing the memory or choosing not to disclose for fear of what it might say about them. I can't imagine using public stalls throughout your life and not being propositioned, either overt or subtle, such as foot tapping.

Most men's fear of man-on-man sex is so strong and so hammered in by the culture, that I think most guys ignore the obvious signs going on around them every day in public bathrooms.

[Anthony]

What is your momentary gender?
Male

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom?
Oh my goodness, more times than I can count. Everything from an "innocent" blowjob to fucking. Three and four ways. And don't get me started on gloryholes. Usually in parks or train/bus stations.

More than once, several times, every day?
There were times when I was there every day. It's a good way to release the pressure! Not so much these days, but that's because most of the t-rooms are gone now, which I find sad.

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman?
Men. Many glorious (and sometimes not so glorious) men.

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you?
Both. Usually strangers, but occassionally you'd see a guy often enough that you'd chat or so. You'd even bring one home on occassion, but that didn't happen very often.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?
Are you kidding? Of course! During a birthday party. His boyfriend was in the other room.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?
Yes.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?
Not to my knowledge.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?" Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?"
Yes. Yes. No. My mother taught me to always be polite.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?
Not to my knowledge.

Are you gay? (Just kidding).
I like my beers cold, my teevee warm and my homosexuals flaaaaaaaaaaming! (Homer Simpson).
I'm pretty gay.

[Regular Reader]

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like).

Nope.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?

Do hotels count? ;->

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?

Not the current one, but in the past, sure (in the tub).

I've never seen or heart this kind of activity in a women's room ever, anywhere in the US, Canada or Europe. I think women generally have higher standards about their sex partners than men do (unless money is involved). I can understand one-night stands and the like, but not completely anonymous sex. Why bother at that point?

I have been propositioned in other places and have normally said No.

Are you gay? (Just kidding).

Mostly straight.

I've on the vanilla, monogamous side of the world, and I like the idea ofcomfortable sex. So, I want a bed, couch, padded chair or rug. Uncomfortable sex is a huge turn-off (though the idea of having sex outdoors, something I've still never done, very much appeals to me).

[Jane]

female

no, not even kissing, at least not in what I'd define a "public" bathroom. Like you mentioned, Susie, I have kissed/fondled/fooled around in a public bathroom at a club only frequented by likeminded people, but I don't really count that since most of the fear factor of being caught wasn't a part of it. Rather, you'd be more likely to be applauded in that scenario.

see answer above

said fooling around was with other women, in every instance

always acquaintances or friends, never a complete stranger

um.. does a nude photoshoot count in someone else's private bathroom?

definitely yes, in my own bathroom

no bathroom fantasies of my own, but above was acted out with a partner who definitely did have bathroom fantasies.

never run into anyone by accident, never been propositioned (not even by a high level Republican)

[Etienne Perret]

Hi,
I am a straight male in my mid fifties.
To date I have never been solicited in a bathroom except for the writing on the walls of the stalls. Maybe I do not go to the right places for I have never witnessed any sex in a public bathroom.
As to having sex in a bathroom myself why not. I love to have sex with my wife in the shower, stand up missionary or from behind.
In todays time of water shortages it is best to shower together.

[Viviane]

What is your gender, at least at the moment? female

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? Not yet

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house? Not yet

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom? All the time

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon? No, because I'd rather be in/on a bed

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?" Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?" Not yet

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex? Not yet!

Are you gay? (Just kidding). Heteroflexible.

[Christian Mann]

What is your gender, at least at the moment?
MALE

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like).
YES. THE TWO INCIDENTS THAT COME TO MIND BOTH INVOLVED THE ELEMENT OF GETTING CAUGHT. THE FIRST ONE WAS ON A PLANE IN 1988. WE AGREED TO GO IN ONE AT A TIME WHILE THE LIGHTS WERE DARK AND THE MOVIE WAS PLAYING. WE HAD POWERFUL LOUD POUNDING SEX. WHEN DONE, THE IDEA WAS WE WOULD EACH SLIP OUT SEPARATELY AND DISCREETLY. UNFORTUNATELY, THE MOVIE WAS OVER, THE CABIN LIGHTS WERE ON AND THERE WAS A LINE WAITING OUTSIDE THE DOOR. SHE WAS SO EMBARRASSED. I PRETENDED TO BE AS WELL, BUT I WAS ACTUALLY A BIT PROUD AS A YOUNG IMMATURE MAN WOULD BE. THE SECOND TIME OCCURED AT A CASTING CALL AT JIM SOUTH'S OFFICE. I TOOK LANA SANDS IN THE BATHROOM AND WENT FOR IT EVEN THOUGH THE OFFICE WAS PACKED AND WE KNEW WE WOULD HOLD PEOPLE UP FROM USING THE TOILET. WE DIDN'T CARE BECAUSE THE LUST FACTOR SUPERCEDED EVERYTHING ELSE. GIVEN THE ENVIRONMENT, NO ONE ELSE REALLY CARED. IN RETROSPECT IT WOULD SEEM SLEAZY TO BANG AN AUDITIONING ACTRESS EXCEPT THIS WAS NOT A CASE OF THE PRODUCER PREYING ON THE HELPLESS GIRL NEEDING WORK. WE WERE ALREADY FRIENDS AND SHE WAS AS MUCH THE AGGRESSOR AS I WAS. WE DID IT FOR PURELY "ALTRUISTIC" REASONS... WE WERE BOTH HORNY AND THE IDEA OF DOING IT IN THAT DISGUSTING BATHROOM ON A HOT VALLEY DAY ADDED TO THE EXCITEMENT. THERE'S MORE, BUT THOSE ARE THE ONES WORTH REMEMBERING.

More than once, several times, every day?
MORE THAN ONCE

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman?
WOMAN

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you?
KNEW THEM... NEVER A STRANGER

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?
YES

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?
YES... BORING AND NOT REALLY CONVENIENT WHEN THE BEDROOM IS NEARBY.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?
NO...A FRIEND OF MINE DATED A HOLLYWOOD "A-LIST" ACTRESS (ACADEMY AWARD WINNER... I WON'T REVEAL NAMES) WHO FELLATED HIM IN THE T-ROOM WHILE SHE WAS POOPING! YUCH!!!

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?"
NO

Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?"
DIDN'T HAPPEN

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?
THANKFULLY NOT, ALTHOUGH I KNOW SOME GOOD STORIES ABOUT REPUBLICAN PECADILLOES... (SUSIE I WILL SEND YOU A PICTURE THAT WILL CLARIFY).

Are you gay? (Just kidding).
HAPPY HETERO, BUT I LOVE MY GAY FRIENDS, EVEN THE REPUBLICANS... BUT I DON'T GET THE WHOLE LOG CABIN THING. I DON'T UNDERSTAND GAY REPUBLICANS. I ALWAYS THOUGHT IT WOULD BE LIKE BEING A JEWISH NAZI PARTY MEMBER.

[C.S. Lewiston]

What is your gender, at least at the moment?

Human male, basic Euro-American model. Standard options.

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like).

Once or maybe twice, I tried to get myself off in a public john, only when I was resaonably certain I wouldn't be discovered. Prefer the privacy (is there such a thing as privacy these days?) of my own home for such endeavors.

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman?

Like I said, I never had person-to-person sex in a bathroom (public-too risky and scuzzy, private-too cramped!). In college however, I did have a quick afternoon delight with an old girlfriend in the campus darkroom. Completely private, lockable door, ready-made excuse to keep intruders out ("Don't come in! I have sensitive materials out!"). Oh, the generations of digital photographers who will never know such joys!

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you?

See above.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?

See above.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?

Only bathtub foreplay with former girlfriends.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?

Negative to that.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?"

No, gosh darn it!

Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?"

No and no.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?

I once ran into a prominent state senator coming out of a men's room as I was entering it. Does that count?

Are you gay? (Just kidding).

Not on this plane of reality.

[Bathroom Sex Witness Relocation Actress]

WHAT IS YOUR GENDER, AT LEAST AT THE MOMENT?
I am the proud owner of a vagina.

HAVE YOU EVER HAD SEX IN A PUBLIC BATHROOM? WHAT DID YOU DO? (DEFINE "SEX" AS YOU LIKE).
I gave a friend -- who also happened to be my employer at the time, and married -- a hand-job in the narrow one-seater W.C. at the bistro where we were having après-work libations. We got the idea, hurriedly left our half-drunken glasses at the bar and joined each other -- so to speak -- in the tiny porcelain-tiled room at the back. It had a very small sink, like those on airplanes, but he had pretty good control of his output. We washed our sins away after the act. He said I had a great "touch." As I hadn't had much experience in that department, mostly due to lack of opportunity, it was a nice ego -- uh -- stroke. I think I made him leave the room first, so it wouldn't look suspicious. Yeah, right.

MORE THAN ONCE, SEVERAL TIMES, EVERY DAY?
That was a singular occurrence. Never before, never again, though I wouldn't rule it out. Best, however, not to canoodle with the boss man.

DID YOU HAVE YOUR T-ROOM SEX WITH A MAN OR WOMAN?
See above.

DID YOU KNOW THEM, OR WERE THEY A STRANGER TO YOU?
ibid

HAVE YOU EVER HAD SEX IN A "PRIVATE" BATHROOM— BUT ONE WHICH WASN'T AT YOUR HOUSE?
Yes, if you count masturbating on the bathroom floor of my childhood home, when I was there visiting my parents on several occasions, like, um, a few years ago. Throw a few hotel scenes into the mix, too, hither and yon -- with and without masturbation.

HAVE YOU EVER HAD SEX IN YOUR OWN DARN BATHROOM?
Yes -- watery foreplay; giving a man a nice bath; being penetrated from behind while bent over the sink; shower fun, this and that. And my hair looks sexy when it's wet. H2Oh!

HAVE YOU HAD BATHROOM SEX FANTASIES, NEVER ACTED UPON?
Probably but I don't remember the specifics. Also, a bed is more comfortable. Having a bathroom sex fantasy while IN bed seems like the happy solution.

HAVE YOU EVER RUN INTO ANYONE HAVING BATHROOM SEX, WHILE YOU WERE JUST "DOING YOUR BUSINESS?" HAVE YOU EVER BEEN PROPOSITIONED AND TURNED SOMEONE DOWN? WAS IT HARD TO SAY, "NO, THANK YOU?"
I saw a man and a woman doing SOMETHING in a restaurant phone booth (the glass-doored old-fashioned kind that Superman used to change in) while I was on my way TO the nearby bathroom. That's the closest I've gotten. And no.

HAVE YOU EVER RUN INTO A HIGH LEVEL REPUBLICAN POL HAVING BATHROOM SEX?
I have never, nor do I hope to EVER run into a high level Republican pol doing ANYTHING. In fact, observing the toilet-sitting elephant of your photograph has abundantly more appeal as a voyeuristic activity.

ARE YOU GAY? (JUST KIDDING).
Not yet.

[12th Man]

What is your gender, at least at the moment?
M

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom?

No

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?

Yes - several times to date with someone I shouldn't have. Mainly with her bent over the bath as the mood's took us. It's a big bathroom and we've had sex in nearly all the rooms in the house.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?

Yes - on the floor with a girlfriend. Came back from a party and we couldn't wait until we made it to the bedroom.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?

No, but can easily think of some.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?"

Went to "boys" room at a club and there was a couple (boy and girl) having sex while i tried to concentrate on having a pee. I'm not sure that's so unusual these days.

Have you been propositioned and turned someone down?

I wish.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?

No, I live in UK and our politicians don't do those sort of things, Susie!

Are you gay? (Just kidding).

Not in this life

[C.S. Lewiston]

http://www.amazon.com/Have-Marijuana-David-Peel-Lower/dp/B000002RKB

Check out the title of track 7 (too bad there's no audio clip available!).

[Amber]

My answers are arguably boring compared to others here, but I figured that's no reason not to add 'em to the mix!

I'm female, and I've had sex in my own bathroom. Bent over the counter, watching ourselves in the mirror, to be specific.

While the idea of having sex in a public bathroom is hot and a good fantasy, I doubt I could ever go through with it in reality, simply because I'm a germaphobe. Yeah, I'm one of those stereotypical Americans that carries hand sanitizer around, thereby making myself a prime target for bigger and badder germs, or so I hear. So I could probably do public bathroom sex if and only if I had either personally scoured the place beforehand, or witnessed such scouring.

(In my fantasies, of course, all bathrooms are by default clean.)

[sinclair]

great survey, susie.

What is your gender, at least at the moment? kinky queer butch top. they all greatly influence my gender.

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like). yes. strapped on with a girl sucking my cock, fingering a girl till she came, on my knees eating her out

More than once, several times, every day? several times, though it was years ago now

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman? women

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you? I knew them

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house? hmm ... I don't think so

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom? absolutely. showering together is fun

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon? can't say I really have that many bathroom fantasies, aside from sex in public bathrooms, which I have done a fair amount of.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?" Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?" no! but that'd be hot.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex? not that I know of ...

Are you gay? (Just kidding). sure - gay, lesbian, dyke, queer, I use 'em all.

[Anon]

Thus far I've only fantasized about having sex in a public restroom, but that's likely to change in the future. My own bathroom(s) of course, have always been fair game--once in a dorm shower, does that count as "public" or "private"? To my knowledge, I've never encountered someone else having sex in a bathroom, so they must have been really quiet. That said, I've walked into men's restrooms accidentally quite often, lost in thought, the last time being yesterday. In an empty one, only the presence of urinals will eventually clue me in.

[Eve]

Bi female.
I've made out with both men and women in bathrooms, mostly in college when I was making out with a ridiculously large amount of people, often at the same time(not sex per se, although it sometimes led to that, but never in bathrooms)

Most of those people were acquaintances, but relative strangers.

I have to say, I don't think I've had sex in anyone else's private bathroom, or even in my own, mostly cause most of my bathrooms and other people's are too damn small to find that very comfortable.

I don't have any particular bathroom fantasies.

I have never run into any high level Republicans having sex in bathrooms, but I have seen people I knew acqaintances and friends) having sex in the bathroom of this one dyke bar in Portland, OR. That bathroom got a LOT of action.

[Dawnee Jo]

All female.
I think I have never even kissed or made out in apublic bathrooms, however, there may be a few unaccounted for moments in my life.

I had to google t-room sex and came up with your site as a reference...lol that is like defining a word with a word. Then I got a site that I had the displeasure of reading Cooper's Review of "Homosexuality in Perspective"...I then was watching the news and oddly enough a news room story on Senator Larry Craig clarified the question for me...So I have never had public t-room sex with a male of female (that I remember). Although I have flirted incorrigibly with many women in public bathrooms. No big "bathroom" sex experiences here though.

Private bathrooms, in someone else's home: I am not a prude, but am a germaphobe so it has never happened but if at Mrs. Cleans humble abode; I would keep my options open.

My bathroom: I think that there is something quite erotic about the bath. Maybe it is the smells of the soaps, dimmer light switch, and heat lamp combined, but I definitely (I am always pleased when spell check does not have to correct D-E-F-I-N-I-T-E-L-Y..Yeah) like MY bathroom as a venue for my sexual adventures. I have fantasies and daydream sex in my bathroom often ( I have five and one outdoor shower, YES, yes, I do!)

As I said I am a germaphobe, so I do not get propositioned when I use napkins to open the door to public restrooms (might be a sign that it would not happen...). Of course, I have been in bars where women have suggested, a younger me just ignored the suggestion offering alternatives and an older me (uh, now) would just laugh (again an obvious sign that it is not happening!)I have run into males having sex in Unisex bathrooms on numerous occasions and just do my business and move on (always sounds like they are having fun though). My eyes are always concerned with potential germage (I know, that is not a word but it should be), so I would not know if anyone in the bathroom was famous.

Am I gay. Of course, I am eternally happy lesbian.

[Scott]

Male

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? Yes

What did you do?

Oral, both giving and receiving, heavy petting and fondling, and vaginal intercourse to orgasm.

More than once, several times, every day?

Several times

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman?

Woman

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you?

She was my girlfriend.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?

Yes.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?

Yes, many times in the shower.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?

Yes, had fantasies, but I acted on them.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?"

No, but it wouldn't bother me. I'd just leave and find another bathroom.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?

No LOL

Are you gay?

No

[anonymous]

What is your gender, at least at the moment?

Female

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do?

No.

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman?

Man.

Did you know them?

Knew all of them, from friends to serious boyfriends.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?

Yes. Friend's parents' house (easier/cleaner/more soundproof than the bedroom), boyfriend's parents' house, boyfriends' houses, friends' houses, friend of friend's houses...

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?

Of course.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?

Yeah. It's not the bathroom itself that's the turn on as much as the public nature of it all.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?"

Yes! The best time was when I walked into an UNLOCKED single-toilet ladies room in a gay bar to find 2 men having sex. One of them was kneeling on the sink—it was QUITE a view! ;)

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?

Nope! Bummer.

[Lanius]

What is your gender, at least at the moment?
- Male.

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do?
- No, never have.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?
- Yes. Parent's house, friends' houses, hotels, motels.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?
- Often.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?
- Every now and again. Inspiration is like that.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?"
- I've had a few people try to get frisky in the restroom at work a few times. Been propositioned a couple times, no difficulty at all saying I wasn't interested.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?
- No, but the way it seems to be going anymore, it's probably only a matter of time before it's a common discovery.

Are you gay? (Just kidding).
- No, a bit somber today. Oh, and straight.

[innocent of it]

What is your gender, at least at the moment?
- Invisibly typical straight male.

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do?
- Nothing more sexual in public bathrooms than the briefest hint at masturbation. There was a woman I worked with in a bookstore; when the unrequited lurch in my chest got to be too much I sometimes would step into our single-room bathroom -- lockable -- and touch my own nipples and imagine things. That's about the speed we're talking. The thought of carrying anything real out in a bathroom with nothing but the rickety stalls most public restrooms have? Seems unlikely to me.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?
- Quite a few times in various ways. Basically it's always been a privacy thing. Certainly masturbation, when life didn't offer much privacy elsewhere.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?
- Sure. On the counter, in the shower, and half-tangled into and onto a nice soft matt on the floor a few times. Again, though, it's partly about the convenience, the likelihood of catching a glimpse of usually-more-guarded skin, and that sort of thing.
I have never once said, to myself or someone else, that we really ought to take this into the bathroom. The shower, absolutely. Some of the best moments of my life have been spent tenderly in showers with someone I adore, early on and then when we were familiar too. But the bathroom as a whole is not fraught with sexual tension. Not anything like.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?
- I'll get back to you in a month, after a thorough inventory of all my sexual fantasies. But offhand, not really. Which must mean bathrooms are off limits in some sense, because if you'd asked about certain playground equipment, the furnace room at my parents' old church, or any number of other settings a fantasy would have come to mind instantly. In fact I'd cook one up where it hadn't existed before, just to please you. You're worth it, Susie.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?"
- No. While I'm quite straight I've always been mildly curious about bathrooms rumored to be hotspots for that sort of thing. Especially at our local university, there were some places people referred to knowingly -- but having used them routinely, I never stumbled across anying. Another comment said he thought boys were exposed to this early, and that men who didn't notice it must be repressing the memory. I guess so. (Oh, and I should maybe say that as a regular at the Minneapolis airport, I must surely have used whatever men's room our esteemed Idahoan senator was nabbed in. As creepy as Mr. Craig sounds, it's also disturbing to me to think some cop was maybe at some point sitting in the next stall waiting to see if I'd make a move. Ick. What do they do when you're just over there doing, as you say, your business? Sit there listening?)

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?
- Another Ick. Not the bathroom part -- the high-level Republican having sex part. Oh, I guess they can have theirs too. No hard feelings, Senator Craig. (Ahem.) Just enough with the anti-gay tirades until after your straight camp reeducation, at the very least, please.

Are you gay? (Just kidding).
- Gay only in the festive, lighthearted sense.

[minstrel boy]

male

yes. i had quick, frantic sex with a cocktail waitress at a place i was playing.

that was the only time. public sex is not a turn on for me. i did that time to see how it would be. the anxiety of being discovered was almost more than i could handle.

woman

we knew each other, in the way of she worked there, so did i. we got to know each other better in a casual "fuck buddy" way.

yes. but, again, i'm not much for being a public sex dude. when it has happened it's more of me going along with something she wanted to do, not as an initiator.

oh, hell yes. i have one of those olympic sized tubs, and enjoy a good, long shared shower.

yes. a lot of times the fantasy involves stuff i would never do in real life, or has an extremely low probability of ever happening. that's what makes it fantasy.

yes. backstage bathrooms can get crowded. same with the one on the bus.

never been propositioned or had to turn it down in a bathroom. but usually when i've been propositioned a gentle and polite "no thank you" suffices. i've never found the need to go all tucker carlson on anybody.

nope, but they sure seem to be some kinky bastards.

not gay. but i have had sex with two gay men who i admired and wanted to please. it didn't disgust me or anything, but it didn't turn me on. they took it in the spirit it was given, and appreciated the gesture. my lack of excitement took a lot of their fun out of it too.

[Jerry]

What is your gender, at least at the moment? Male.

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like). Let's see: mutual masturbation, fellatio (giving and receiving, and anal.

More than once, several times, every day? More times than I can count anymore.

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman? Men. Exclusively.

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you? Mostly strangers, though by no means entirely.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house? Yes, now that I think about it, but it was usually pretty much a continuation of sex in the bedroom.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom? Oh, yes.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon? Nah, I've pretty much done them all.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?" Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?" Yes, not that I remember, and moot point.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex? No. A few Republican voters, but never an elected official.

Are you gay? (Just kidding). Um, probably.

[Jerry]

Oh, and somehow I expected a little bit more from Viviane...

[Jess]

What is your gender, at least at the moment?

-Female

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like).

-A few times, but only in single-stall bathrooms with a locking door. There's no way anyone could have come in without a battering ram or a strong kick to the handle. We had standing penetrative sex (female-female).

More than once, several times, every day?

-Several times.

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman?

-Women.

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you?

-They were girlfriends.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?

-Once, with a boyfriend.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?

-At a previous residence, but not the current one.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?

-Oh hell yes--there's a woman at work who I would love to drag me into the employee bathroom and fuck me stupid.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?" Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?"

-Yes, yes and yes.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?

-I'm counting the minutes until it happens.

Are you gay? (Just kidding).

-About 75%.

[Alice]

Straight female. Saw it once in the stall near me in high school.

It's never appealed. I guess what's appealling is the thrill/danger aspect, which doesn't titillate me. If I got caught, I'd feel like mum found out, and that's not much of a kick.

Have had a bathroom dream, interestingly. It was a foul, gas station bathroom, and the man was someone I knew, but excrement was involved in the sex, so not being coprophilic, this was a real turn-off. Naw, anonymity and b-rooms aren't too sexy to me.

[TW]

What is your gender, at least at the moment?
Male

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like).
I'm not sure what it is about coffee shop bathroom blow jobs, but that has been my most prevalent form of bathroom sex -- maybe it is the caffeine?

The all-time best bathroom sex for me had to be on the bullet train in Japan. The bathroom was cramped and at one point in the thrusting, the two foreigners (gaijin) managed to have her foot ring the alarm bell, but we were not to be denied, in part because the train wasn't the only thing traveling fast through the tunnels.

More than once, several times, every day?
Bathroom sex is best as a variety option to be participated in for those times when it is the only privacy option at times of extreme horniness.

Did you have your t-room sex with a man or woman? Women. The more interesting question is was it in the men's room or the women's room and the answer -- Yes, both, and unisex bathrooms, too. This reminds me of another favorite, dressing room sex.

Did you know them, or were they a stranger to you? Always been with a partner in a relationship.

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?
Interrupted some bathroom sex before. Nothing memorable, however, although shower sex, as noted above is almost as classic as the missionary position.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?Of course.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?I do now.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?" Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?"Nope. I must be frequenting the wrong bathrooms.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?Nah, just low level drones.

Are you gay? (Just kidding).I'm a very happy individual.

[theo]

What is your gender, at least at the moment?
Genderqueer with a female body

Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom? What did you do? (Define "sex" as you like).
I used to shower every day with my girlfriend at the time in the bathroom on our dorm floor ("to conserve water"). We gave each other hand jobs and occasionally head.

More than once, several times, every day?
Too many hot showers really dry out your skin...

Have you ever had sex in a "private" bathroom— but one which wasn't at your house?
Numerous times, usually at the home of someone I was dating but not always.

Have you ever had sex in your own darn bathroom?
I just had a threesome last weekend in the shower. I was surprised that there was enough room.

Have you had bathroom sex fantasies, never acted upon?
My ex told me about a girl going down on her in a bathroom stall at a bar while she was on her period. I really wish I could have watched.

Have you ever run into anyone having bathroom sex, while you were just "doing your business?" Have you ever been propositioned and turned someone down? Was it hard to say, "No, thank you?"
Sadly, no.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex?
No.

Are you gay? (Just kidding).
Maybe. Are you?

[Virgin Slut]

Female. Yes, I've had full on sex 5/6 times and also given and received oral sex about a dozen times. Being a germaphobe, I don't really like public bathrooms, but sometimes you've got to do what you've got to do. Have always done it with my boyfriend.

As for sex in a "private" bathroom ... define "private" ... if you mean in people's homes, then no ... why do it in the bathroom when you can do it in the bedroom? Closet? Kitchen? Backyard? I have had sex in the bathrooms at work, and I suppose that is private space. In my own house, I've had sex in the shower, but I don't really see the point of having "bathroom sex" in my own house.

I've acted on all my bathroom sex fantasies.

I haven't run into anyone having bathroom sex, while I was just "doing my business" but I'm pretty sure I've heard women masturbating or doing something that made them moan.

I've never been propositioned.

Have you ever run into a high level Republican pol having bathroom sex? No, and I hope I never will.