Well, shut my twat. A few weeks ago, I scoffed about a product called PK24 which claimed it will tighten a woman's vagina. I affectionately nicknamed it, "Pussy Kinky 24."
Well, thanks to my helpful listeners and readers, I've discovered the real question is whether you'll ever be able to get your lips open again!
In Bed with Susie Bright #289: Tight Spot
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In the second part of my show, I crack up over some recent advice from Dan Savage who rather bluntly advises low-libido wives to either put out on a regular basis, or learn to tolerate cheating with a smile on their face. Ouch! — or is it something that needs to be said that baldly?
His focus is on women who are spurning their lovers for a chocolate bar, and yet still insisting on fidelity. I was surprised he didn't address how often the shoe is on the other foot.
Out of the thousands of couples I hear from who have a strain over the frequency of their lovemaking, I'd say it's almost 50/50, gender-wise, with maybe a slight edge of men complaining. —Depends on the month.
But no one's going to publish an insipid pink book that says men would rather eat chocolate than fuck their winsome, horny, willing-to-do-anything wives. THAT doesn't fit the sexist stereotype of "low-libido," and THAT pisses me off.
I hear from both sides with equal desperation and guilt all the time. Gay men couples agonize as much over these differences as the lesbians. Why do people like to pretend lack of desire is a female dilemma?
I wrote a story a couple years ago about the secrecy surrounding men who pass on sex, called "Men Who Love Burgers." I keep wanting to update it, because I've had some new thoughts since I wrote it.
What do you think of the issue of losing desire in one's relationship? What about the way couples so often find it an uncrossable line, even unspeakable? Do any of you think you've got it all figured out? Does greeting your baby at the door bound in Saran Wrap really work? ;-)
Finally in my Try This at Home mailbag, I get a timely letter from a woman who says her lover keeps rolling over and going to sleep too soon.
Don't forget, you can send your confidential questions, feedback about the show, and requests for free Girly Cards (four shows for free!) to [email protected] (Episode 289, April 13, 2007)
